I came accross the V person yesterday, and was for almost the first time in my life rude when i meant to be. He kept asking me cheerfully how i was and i instinctively said a cheery 'hi' and then regretted, so when he continued i abruptly said "see ya", and i guess he got the message that i dont want to speak to him. Dreamyeyes said that why show him that you were upset by his behaviour. but the truth is that i was upset and for once I dissed him. and it felt wonderful.